Wednesday, December 3, 2008

To the students of Eng 304 Spring Semester

I would like to begin by congratulating you on being in this class! I think that you will find it to be extremely helpful in not only your academic career, but also after school when you go out into the real world.

My first tip: go to class! Not only will your grade suffer due to lost participation points and daily grades if you do not, but it is also very helpful to have Mrs. Rogers address any questions you may have. And trust me, you will have them.

I don't know if you have already written a resume, my guess is that you have. But this class has provided the most help I have ever received on creating and perfecting a presentable resume.

That leads me to a second suggestion: buy the book! I actually plan on keeping mine at the end of the semester because it shows you how to create every formal document you can imagine. It's not that expensive, and totally worth the money.

My third tip: pick a good group at the beginning of the semester to work with for your client proposal. I lucked out in that for the first time in my schooling history, I a member of a hardworking group. I am so glad that I chose the members I did. Your group can really make you or break you, so chose wisely.

My next suggestion is to get to know your client and learn their desires for the project. If you don't know what they want, you will not be able to give it to them. I know this sounds dumb, but it is important that you do not waste your time writing a proposal that does not fit the wants and needs of your client. Though they will probably accept your proposal either way, you will have to make changes to it at the end of the semester when you are already busy with other classes. (If you get the work done early on it makes the end of the year go by much smoother.) Also, you want to help the client because otherwise you are just wasting your time, and the clients.

That about sums it up. This is a fun and helpful class. It is not that hard if you just do the work. And try not to fall behind on assignments, because it will come back to bite you in the ass in the long run.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Group Project Reflect

To begin with, I feel that I made a good character judgment when I made my choice on who I wanted to group with. All of my fellow members are hard working individuals who are motivated by the will to excel, which I feel is a trait we all share. Because of this, our group chose to do more than just come up with a few minor ways to help. We decided to start a project that could be put into motion and that will hopefully benefit Helping Hands over and over again.

By doing this group project, I learned that group roles are not as important to designate, in certain situations, as is the amount of work that each person commits to the group. Often times I make plans that I feel I must stick to, almost as if I make them concrete from the beginning. I feel that this is a harmful way to manage things because it only leads to let down. By keeping plans open to change from the beginning, you allow more chances to make the idea better.

We originally wanted to do two ideas because we could not decide which would be better. Normally, this insecurity in plans would worry me. But in this case, it lead to open discussions about both ideas which allowed us to look at each with an open mind. Then, by presenting both ideas to the client, we were able to target her true desires and needs more efficiently. Once she informed us that she liked the movie idea better, we were able to expand more on it and had a better idea of the pros and cons of it by comparing it to those of our other idea.

All in all, I feel that my group has done a very good job in being understanding of each other's personal reasoning, as well as to the clients. I have enjoyed working with Kelly, Chelsey, and Will. I wish my groups in my other class were half as good as team W.A.C.K.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Miscommunications in the Work Environment

When I was in high school I worked at an animal hospital, where I was the youngest employee, and the only one still in high school. Because of this fact, I feel like the other people who worked there took advantage of their seniority over me and I was never able to get a day off because no on else would work.
On one specific occasion, after I had been working there for over 3 months, I told my boss that I had soccer championships coming up and would not know exactly which days I would need off. I guess I assumed that by telling her in advance that she would be more inclined to help me find someone to cover my shifts, if needed.
Then, the day came and I informed my boss almost a week in advance about the game. She, for some reason, put me on the schedule anyways to work that exact shift that was during my game. I asked everyone who works there if they could cover for me, and of course, no one would. I told my boss that I was not going to be able to make it, but she refused to help me find someone to work.
Even on the morning of the game I wasn't sure what I was going to do. I had already made a commitment to both my work and my team. I thought long and hard about it, and finally decided that I would be more beneficial to go to work. The reason I chose work was because only one other girl was working that day and there was no way she could have done everything by herself. It wasn't her fault no one else would work, and I didn't want her to suffer because of it. I decided that my team had plenty of substitutes and that this would give another one of the girls a chance to play, since I was a starter.
My team lost that game during finals. I quit my job the next week because they gave me no flexibility and I felt that I had been walked all over. To this day, I regret missing that game. Who knows if we would have won had I been there.
But at the same time, I think that I would probably make the same choice today, just because it wasn't fair to that one girl at work.
I don't know which decision was right. But I know that I handled the situation by weighing each option, then I made a choice based on my morals.
I would like to hope that this type of predicament won't happen again, but I know it will. And all I can do is follow my heart to make the right choice.

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Mock Interview Reflection

This week I had my mock interview for a position in Oregon as a drug counselor. All in all, I feel like it went pretty well. To be totally honest, I was pretty nervous about it, even though it wasn't real. I guess it was more like the jitters you get before an exam. I feel like this nervousness showed through the manner in which I was talking. I feel like I was speaking really fast, and maybe rambling. I tend to talk a lot when I'm nervous. This is something that I need to work on before a real job interview. I don't want to end up talking too much.
I was surprised, though, at how much talking time I was given. I guess I just didn't expect to get the chance to say as much as I did. This tells me that I need to have topics prepared to discuss deeper.
I wish that I had written a description of each of my jobs and volunteer work so that I would have my words collected already, thus being better prepared to discuss them and any questions an interviewer might have about them.
I was also late to my interview because of personal reasons. Luckily the interviews were about ten minutes late so I ended up getting there in good time. But if it were the real deal that would be unacceptable. I want to try to be early to my interviews, to compensate getting backed up for some reason.
I liked this experience. I feel like it was a great chance to not only practice an interview, but to get me looking farther ahead. By having to find an actual job that I would like to have in ten years was interesting because I haven't even thought about that before. I was surprised how many jobs I was able to throw out as chances based on how I feel today. I kind of want to do my interview again now.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Mock Interview Reflection

I cannot write my reflection yet because I have not done my mock interview yet.

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Presentations Review

Normally I hate having to sit through other people's presentations. Most of the time they are on mundane subjects and all too often it feels like a waste of my time. However, the majority of the speeches this week tended to be pretty entertaining.
My favorite presentation was on Attentional Blink, by Jeff. I thought that it was very refreshing to actually be able to learn something interesting during class presentations. He chose a topic that he was passionate about and that showed during his presentation. I love psychology, as well, so it was a real treat to hear some interesting facts in an English class.
Another presentation that I also enjoyed was the one about fast cars. I don't know the guy's name that wrote it because it was not on his handout. I was surprised about how much I actually liked hearing about something that I have never been interested in before. I wouldn't have thought that I would find that cool, but looking at all of those pictures of all of those hot cars made me want one! And that's odd to be coming out of my mouth because I like Eco-friendly things and I see those cars as being wasteful. However, I found a new respect for them through this presentation.
I also liked the presentation on facebook stalking! I thought it was clever, funny, and relevant to the audience. I liked it because it's something we all do, and she just put it into words.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

An Increase in Punishment is not an Increase in Behavior

Since I am having so much trouble deciding what I want to discuss for this week's free write, I am simply going to talk about a topic that has been on my mind this week. This is disparity in the repercussions of criminal actions between young people and the rest of society.
I recently got in trouble with the law, nothing major, don't worry. Yet I have noticed that the there is a grand difference in the treatment and views of young people who get into trouble versus adults, who in my opinion, have less to lose.
What's the deal with the law prosecuting more harshly against those with their entire future ahead of them? If we, college students, are our society's future, then why is this society so trigger happy when it comes to destroying these futures?
It wasn't until the past few years that the law has provided a second chance to those who break the law at a young age. Before the chance of PTI, ADP, etc., once a young person got into trouble, they lost all the work they had done and whatever future they were headed towards. As the incarceration rates increased, so did the rates of criminals, obviously. But then, as the criminal rates increased, society began to believe that our young people were getting worse. When in fact, it was the treatment of criminals that changed, not the criminal acts themselves.
As a result, we have more young people getting in trouble for the same 'unlawful acts' that our parents were doing at our age.
An example of this is how DUI's used to be dealt with. In the old days, if a minor was caught drinking and driving, their parents were either notified and had to come pick them up, or someone else was allowed to drive. Then, both were released. Now, if a minor gets caught doing the same unlawful act, they are arrested, their car towed, they are fined, face jail time, loss of scholarships, loss of driver's license, and may have it on their criminal record for life.
To me, this sounds like e are hindering our youth. We are punishing them more harshly for acts of the same degree. And as a result, we are decreasing the amount of prospects for jobs and college. Is it just me or does this sound like we are shooting ourselves in the foot?
Anyways, before I begin to ramble, I will stop. This is just a little something I've been thinking about. I would love to hear what others have to say on the matter!!!

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Writing Cover Letters

Well, damn. After reading the first article about cover letters I must admit I am a bit bummed. Not that it is very surprising that employers scan resumes first, then perhaps read them if they're interested, and do not even read cover letters until after that.
But, it is hopeful to learn that by simply being aggressive and following up on a company that you have applied for can really open doors. I like the idea of seeing yourself as a product and the company as the consumer. This way, you are marketing yourself to a company. They need to know how and why your product (you) stand out from all the rest, and how the consumer (company) will benefit from you.
I think that this is a great way to think of yourself when applying for a job. It makes one focus more on the company than their self, which is good. If you show knowledge and interest in a company, then it will give you ethos that support the idea that they should hire you.
My favorite piece of advice from this whole article is to hand write a P.S. at the end of your cover letter. I think that this is an awesome way to stick out and to gain a prospective employer's attention. This is definitely something I want to do.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Interview Strategy: Telling Stories

My favorite theme that I learned from this article is that an interview should be more like a conversation than an interrogation. I think that this is an important concept for interviewees to recognize because people tend to get nervous during interviews. They may end up saying something they didn't mean or not putting their thoughts into words correctly because they are focusing too much on what the interviewer wants to hear.
If people focused more on interesting stories about themselves and their accomplishments that could build their ethos, then perhaps they wouldn't get mental blocks when asked simple questions. In my case, I have plenty of great answers to offer, but I tend to think too much about the question, that sometimes I can't find the answer I want to use.
I tend to react in interview questions the same as I do for exam questions. I think that if I got the opportunity to decide what topics I wanted to discuss before the interview/exam, then I would be much more secure in my answers and feel better prepared. As long as I find example stories that could answer multiple questions, then I would be prepared for much more.
This article made me stop and think about a few stories that might be beneficial to me in a job interview and it has really made me reflect on what I experience I really do have in the work force. It turns out that I have many crisis situations that I underwent while working as a full time nanny. It kinda makes me excited for the opportunity to talk about these situations in a future job interview.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

10 yrs from now

Though I can tell you exactly where I want to be for the next month, almost hour for hour, I am finding it quite difficult to decide where I want to be ten years from now. For starters, I want to have graduated from Clemson University with a masters in Sociology, and perhaps a bachelors in Psychology. From there, I hope to be in a profession with some type of drug counseling. Hopefully this will be a good paying job, but if not, it won’t make much of a difference to me.
One thing I do know is that I am not planning on having kids in the next ten years. Though I do want kids, I am in no hurry and would like to get settled on my own two feet before I bring another life into this world. I would like to think that in ten years I will be married, but then again, there are a lot of things I want to accomplish and places I want to go before I tie myself down to any one person.
I would like to learn sign language fluently by then, and perhaps Braille. I know for sure that I want to travel to Brazil at some point to learn Portuguese. I think it would also be nice to go to Africa and be in the Peace-Core for a few years before I find a real job, i.e. actually grow up.
Before I graduate from Clemson University, however, there are some things I would like to accomplish. Above all, I want to make at least a 3.0 my graduating year. I would also like to become more involved in student organizations. I am currently a member of both Roots for Shoots and Solid Green. I would like to be a part of student government and do something to leave my print on Clemson University, in a positive way.
I would also like to get an internship at a hospital, rehab center, or even with SLED. From there I hope to find the exact direction to suit me, so that I might follow it. I at least know that I want to end up in Oregon to start my family. I love Oregon because it’s not so hot, they have very liberal laws, and also because the scenery is so magnificent.
I know that my plans for the next ten years are broad and iffy, but I simply am not sure what exactly I want to do right now. My biggest hope is that with in the next ten years, I really want to find this out!

Sunday, August 31, 2008

Web 2.0

The title of this video suggests that people feel they are inferior to animals because of our technology, but recommends that there is something inferior to humans, the technology itself. We feel that we are in control with these extra powers technology gives us. But perhaps this same friend that we rely so much on is beginning to control us.
This video is suggesting that society may be getting sucked into the web in more ways than one would think. We see the Internet and all of this technology as steps in the right direction, or as improvements. But perhaps humanity is getting lost some where in between cyber space and reality.
Web 2.0 sounds so wonderful from the outside. It instantly connects us to the entire world. We can share pictures, documents, and thoughts with virtually whoever, where ever. But one of the draw backs of such availability is that these same things can be traced. We love to share pictures from a wild party last weekend. But now we must worry about them making their way into the wrong person's hands.... i.e. our employers, professors, parents, boyfriends, girlfriends, and future employers. This results in a world where nothing is a secret, everything can be found out.
It's a scary thought. Yet very true. We must think now about what we say and do over the Internet because it could come back to bite us in the @$$ later. This is crucial from both those who are employed and those who look for a job.
It really can make one hesitate before they post their next blog, ext.

Sunday, August 24, 2008

All about me

Hi,
My name is Adrienn. My major is sociology. I have no real idea what it is that I plan on doing with such a degree. For now I am riding where ever the wind takes me looking for where I should go. I love the out doors. I am big on the environment and nature. I come from a pretty liberal family so my views are the like. My favorite thing to do is spend time with the people I love, while enjoying Mother Earth. I wish I was a funnier person, or perhaps a better speller. But I try to take it easy and not be in a rush to get things done in life. I am hardworking and fun-loving.
I hope this is a good introduction.